Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Sex is private matter

HE is a 21 years old law undergrad at NUS with ASEAN scholar. He became under spotlight after he posted sex video and photos with his girlfriend on his personal blog. It effectively drew a lot of public attention and of course earn a lot ill-critics. To avoid public outrage, the blog was shut down to halt public access. However, it remain hot topic online through yahoo Singapore website. Under normal circumstance, it is embarrassing saga for those who perform in video if they are uploaded by third party without their consent. But this is different case. The young couple deliberately took video recording at their home and uploaded in their blog. The problem is their action is not accepted by our culture. Perhaps it would not be problem if it is happened in western world. Plus, he is just ordinary person rather than law student with scholarship at prestigious university. I'm interesting to read the full story and wants to see how it is going to end.

Sex for grade saga is still on-going trial for NUS law professor and former law student, another sex related case is surfaced. Unfortunately, both case come from republic's top university. I think, the NUS students society also not happy with the latest story because it may affect reputation of university. Surprisingly, the young couple not go silent, instead they are trying to explain their opinion to the hotted media. Today, they tried to use Facebook for their defense. It seem needless to explain for public because the value of Asian culture should not be compromised by such behavior. We cannot avoid sex but we have to keep it secret. It shouldn't be public affair. We all even disgust to see couple kiss in front of public on public transport. Then, how do we accept their wrong doing? We may need special heart to forgive their act. This is clearly some form of unacceptable especially within educated society. Even ordinary people might have have done such thing and have such courage. Perhaps they have different reason to support their feast. But we don't want younger generation to make copycat. At the same time, people doubt the standard of education in republic. Do we really teach our students properly to behave themselves in life? The question is there and open for authority to review their system.


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