Friday, September 2, 2011

They are human beings too


THINGS must change by time. For one instance, in past, Asia nations like China & India people are crazy with getting son. They even intentionally kill their biological unborn girl when they know in advance for genital with the help of TV scan. These two giant nation's people might have a good reason behind to do such cruel act. Chinese had one child one family policy to control their already vast population. Indian parent will have a bundle of worry for wedding cost when their daughter grows up. Luckily, my country has no genital favor when it come to deliver for all parent. Culturally, we consider every child is equivalent to a precious gem. That's why our people appreciate their new babies regardless of boy or girl. We all welcome new member of the family by the best possible effort.

Nowadays, I read a lot news regarding adult working men are finding hard to find a suitable wife especially in those male-favor countries. Obviously, China and India is leading those bride-shortage nations. Rich men are buying their life partners from poorer countries of the region through agents and this business become sizable now. This fashion dramatically lead the human smuggling among the poor countries and fuel the crime. I am not happy to learn such news because most of them are not positive. It used to come in cruel ways. Some agents might have lured the potential young bride with a good paid job in the developed countries. Some frankly bought them from their parent. Some young women are not knowing what're awaiting them ahead and what are they suppose to do until they eventually realize it. For those unlucky women can end up at the brothel house. What an unfair life is it to end like that without consent?

For those who are chosen as a wife also can meet their expectation with very little chance. Because regardless of she loves or hate, she must marry to a man who is interesting in her. They are exposed on a parlor of the agent's office. Those men who are unable to find a bride by their own ability due to different reason usually go such places. It can be because he is so poor or he is so ugly, or he is so old or he don't have a good job or he is not educated man. Anything can happen to those men. No wonder such places or agents become modern paradise of such men. Sadly most of such men treat their wives as a domestic maid. I am really upset to read news of run away wife as she can't bear the cruel of her husband. Being underdogs, they don't have a favor of the family members. Surprisingly, some agents are boasting by marketing that beautiful wife can be taken to home by installment in the lure of poorer men. What a bloody story like this?

Being poor is not a sin and nothing to do with those playful cruel people, I think. They are not object, they are also human beings and they can have a feeling. Please see them as a human being and treat them with dignity. If you don't want to love or kind enough to a certain person, better leave them so that they can meet next kind person. Please do not kill their live to feed your selfish mind. Life is short and we all would be die one day sooner or later. Then we all are the same again. Being human beings is already honored by God and please appreciate it. Do not spoil our beautiful planet by doing those ugly things, my friends.

It's real that rich nations like China, Singapore, Malaysia and South Korea are importing young women to fill the gap of their adult men needs. The stats has shown clearly that there is not enough brides to plug in the demanding grooms. This has become modern matter to be solved out by some governments these days. So it is real threat to us if we are from the poor society and lets educate our people so that they can avoid from falling the lure of cruel agents. I am not happy to learn that most of my fellow female people are being smuggled by agent through the boarder. Most agent take advantage of uneducated villagers. Hopefully our civilian government can address this matter before it goes uncontrollable. It's not just a matter of some families who suffer, it's national level case as our new generation can be severely affected by such ill activities.

May the authorities hear my voice and able to take necessary action.

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